This week we had watched the movie Thirteen. It is a story about this girl named tracy and I bet you can guess her age.
Something that really caught my eye in this movie was her desire to be liked, through the whole movie. But, being liked by her real friends wasn’t what she wanted, she wanted to be like but the cool ones. The ones that expected her to do different things than she normally would. She starts out being a sweet girl who goes to her friends to do her homework and seems like she is pretty laid back and nice. But in time, as she starts to walk around her school, she is teased by how she dresses, so she begins to have the desire to dress like the cool kids.
That is where it all begins. She desires for one thing after another, and next thing you know she had it all. She was liked by everyone because, she would smoke, she would drink, she would go out and party all night long when she was supposed to be back at a certain time. She became someone different so she could be liked.
As time goes on, things get worse. Her mom gets upset because she is lying and always disrespectful to her, and she starts to see all these different things, her bellybutton ring, her tongue ring. Then it leads to finding all the objects she would use with her friend while the door was locked. The stuff she used to get high, the stuff she used to cut herself. And all these things were brought to her, and in time she broke down.
I think in my oppinion when she got into this and got all this attention she had a desire to get out of it. But wouldn’t push herself. She was doing this now for a while, and we all know it is harder to stop than to start. I believe she wanted to change, but she felt she had no reason to.
We all have desires. My question is what do you desire? To be like by your friends? or to be Love by our God?