Myspace
I recently watched a video about Myspace. It talked about how kids today have a myspace but do not know how to properly use them, and use them for things that should not be used for. Myspace has become such a big thing. As I watched this movie and they interviewed these students from the ages of 12 to 17 we heard story after story. One student was not very happy with herself and started making herself very pretty and seductive and gave herself a nickname and a new myspace. She was 16 but looked 21. She was starting to feel good about herself, as she would hear people talking about her all around the school. No one knew it was her, cause she had a nickname and looked way different in the pictures than in school. Her parents knew nothing about it. I think she was afraid if they knew, they wouldn’t understand her reason for it, they wouldn’t understand that this made her feel good about herself, to hear them talk about her in school and stuff made her happy. She wasn’t very popular in school and to me that was her goal, to be one of the popular ones, even if no one knew it was really her.
I think as a youth pastor, we need to really focus on our youth and help them realize it isn’t how the look, or what they do. But it is who they really are that matters, not only do youth pastors need to do so, but parents, Officers.
The point of this is just to say from my point of view, Kids have to much freedom when it comes to the internet now days. Kids have computers in their rooms, or other rooms no one comes into, and they always have opportunities to look up things and do things that would not be approved of. I think that parents should put parental blocks on their computers. Myspace is an easy way for someone to track someone down. You have all your information on it.
These websites are not safe, and is not good for young vulnerable teenagers. That is my opinion.
~B~